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Writer's pictureUrmil Wadhwa

Blessings in Disguise!

Updated: Jun 9, 2022


There are times in your life when things are not happening exactly as you want. There are situations, events, or people in your life strikingly different from what you would rather have and this is called experiencing contrast.


Contrast is not good or bad, it’s just the variety present in the universe. When you see the contrast in your life, you tend to ask why it only happens to me? Why I am the one being grilled? Well, it’s not only you who faces contrast; although you may perceive it so. We all go through contrast in our lives one or the other time. If you broaden your vision you will be surprised to see and realize that you are far more blessed than many.


Now the question is why does contrast appear in our lives? Well, it is the contrast that helps you to decide, it’s the variety that helps you to define and uniquely choose your life experience. Contrast is essential to your expansion.


You have contrast in your life because you are emitting a vibration to attract it. You are a vibrational being emitting vibes. When you are not sure of what you want in your life, you are attracting by default and when contrast appears in your life you get sure you don’t want it but the opposite. Most of the time we are emitting vibrations based on our conditioning and we are not even aware of it. Our conditioning works on an auto pilot in our subconscious mind. That’s not the way you want to live. Getting aware of your own energy patterns is very important. Once you align with the source within, you get to know yourself better. You can clearly see and understand your own mind's tricks. Our ego has one and only one agenda, to hurt others and get hurt ourselves in response.


Once you understand how the Law Of Attraction works, and that you have a guidance system within you that lets you know the relationship between the vibrations you are offering and the vibration you are in reality, you will choose to find thoughts that feel good all the time. Allow yourself to find thoughts that feel good and let go of thoughts that don’t feel good. Your emotions clearly guide you where you stand in terms of your vibration. Whenever you are not feeling good or unhappy, know that you are disconnected from the source within.


Awareness is the key. Tend to your emotions in early subtle stages. Catch yourself as early as possible and create a momentum of good feeling thoughts. You are a creator; you have the energy that created worlds flowing through you. It’s important to notice where your emotions are leading you unto, process them before they get going any further.



Ever wonder if contrast could be beneficial for you? If you really believe that things are always working for you, and you expect wonderful outcomes no matter what? Then even contrast may bring you into situations that put you on a higher platform and I like to call it “Blessings in disguise”. Every person, every event, and every situation in your life comes to teach you something. In Bhagwat Gita the Hindu’s Holy book lord Krishna explains whatever happens in our life happens for good, we come to this life empty-handed and we will go empty-handed so just enjoy whatever you create here without being attached to it.

Things are always working for you and it depends on your perception and momentum of your desire that contrast can also be a benefit and may lead you right to what you want.


You may rather be thankful for contrast in your life as it gives you clarity on identifying what you truly want. Sometimes when you look back at the events in past, you realize that whatever seemed painful then has rewarded you with growth and strength which couldn’t have been possible otherwise. Instead of getting fixated on contrast, focus on what you truly want. If you can interpret unconditionally the vibration of what you want to manifest as feelings/emotions you are on your way to getting it. You have to translate the vibration into emotion and hold it consistently before it translates into reality.


There is a difference between contrast and resistance. Contrast is a situation or events or people in your life exactly opposite to what you would want. Whereas resistance is the energy you are putting out to refuse to accept or comply with something you would rather want. To get over contrast first of all stop beating yourself up for having contrast. Make a decision to care for yourself in terms of how you feel. Find out ways to let go of resistance and allow the universe to deliver all that you desire.


Accept yourself and everyone else as it is; without judgment or criticism. We are all part of the huge oneness pool at the same time we are uniquely different in our acquired skills, talents, and conditioning. We live in time/space reality which has polarity. Without understanding hatred, you cannot value love. Unless you have seen scarcity you cannot appreciate abundance. So focus only on what feels good. If you focus on contrast or the lack of what you want, you feel bad. When you focus on what you want, you feel good and you are in the positive mode of attraction. Just make a decision that you will look for what you want to see and by virtue of your positive feelings, you will attract whatever you desire.


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